NEWS RELEASE, 02/12/98
U.S. families of all kinds need help; new social policies must be created, say 10 UC Berkeley family scholars
BERKELEY -- American families across the social and political spectrum are in trouble and need help raising children.
The difficulty is not restricted to poor or single-parent families, but also affects affluent, two-parent families, those often held up by conservative commentators as models of family life.
Unfortunately, public policies that are supposed to help children and their parents are actually making things worse, according to a new analysis by 11 family scholars at the University of California, 10 of whom are from the Berkeley campus. This unique collaboration includes academics across the fields of law, history, sociology, social welfare, psychology and public policy.
In their new book, All Our Families: New Policies for a New Century, which will be released this month by Oxford University Press, the Berkeley Family Forum, a group of mostly liberal academicians, join conservatives in diagnosing trouble for the family, but reach vastly different conclusions about solutions.
They call for new ways to support children born into the diverse families of the 1990s. More than half of the children born this year, for instance, will lose one or both parents to divorce, abandonment, or neglect before they reach adulthood. Evidence shows that such children risk developing emotional, social or academic problems.
But the researchers emphasize that marriage by itself is no solution because middle class, two-parent families are in trouble too.
In provocative new findings on mainstream marriages, two members of the forum reveal that up
to a third of the couples they studied began having significant difficulties upon the birth of a child. Depression and marital conflict were common.
"There is cause for concern about the health of 'the family'--even those considered advantaged by virtue of their material and psychological resources," said UC Berkeley psychologists Philip and Carolyn Cowan.
"A surprisingly high proportion of couples experience increased tension, conflict, distress and divorce in the early years after the arrival of a first child," they said.
Between a fourth and a third of some 200 families studied by the Cowans, from pregnancy through a child's transition into elementary school, scored high on depression and low on a marriage satisfaction scale, indicating that their marriages could benefit from professional intervention.
Now in its tenth year, the Cowan study provided some of the 200 families with psychological intervention and found not only that marriages improved, but the children's performance in school did also, compared to families receiving no outside help.
"Families are isolated," said Carolyn Cowan, a research psychologist with the Institute of Human Development. "As a parent, you don't necessarily know what you are doing, even if you've read a lot of books.
"There is no obvious place for parents to turn for help before their stress begins to spill over into their marriages and their relationships with their children," she said.
The psychologists are among some 40 academics at UC Berkeley who have been meeting for the past three years in monthly seminars aimed at creating new policy solutions for difficult family issues. Discussion has ranged widely, from examining proposals for making divorce harder to new reproductive technologies, the role of race in foster care and adoption, welfare reform, social security solutions, domestic partnerships, and European family policies.
Eleven of the participants have now brought their work together in All Our Families, edited by Professor of Social Welfare Mary Ann Mason, psychological researcher Arlene Skolnick, and Professor of Law, Stephen D.Sugarman.
Chapters cover many hot-button issues, including teenaged parents, stepparents, single parents,
parents who kidnap, children of divorce, gay and lesbian families, abusive families, dual career and nuclear families. Each chapter has been written with a view toward creating new public policy that will be more effective in furthering the welfare of children than are current U.S. approaches.
Oxford University Press, which sees this as the first book to bring together so many family issues under one cover, plans to market it as both a textbook and a trade book.
One of its more controversial conclusions is a recommendation that laws and rights governing parenthood shift from an emphasis on blood relationships and give more rights to non-genetic parents, such as stepparents, while making it easier for neglected children to be adopted.
"Our policies are rooted in blood and marriage. That seems wrong in a day when biology bears less and less relationship with what children need and current families are like," said Sugarman.
Mason, also a lawyer and professor, agreed that family law must shift "from this great emphasis on biological parenthood, which is not always best for children."
"What counts is that you are a good parent, whether you are a stepparent or a foster parent," she said.
Mason argues for the creation of a category of de facto parent which would give more rights and duties to stepparents who are actually raising children.
Other solutions in the book are uncommonly offered in a public forum, such as using the social security system to support children whose fathers have abandoned them, in the same way that it now supports children whose fathers have died.
"From the child's viewpoint, it doesn't matter whether the father has died or disappeared," said Sugarman. "It isn't fair that we help one child and not the other."
In addition to the usual problems that put a child at risk, such as having only one parent or being poor, the book makes it plain that children from traditional two-parent families are also being impaired psychologically and scholastically because of parental stress.
Because of the Cowans' long-term follow-up of two-parent families, they have been able to link actual declines in a child's early school performance with the psychological and marital health of the parents -- something that has been hard to prove in past research.
Specifically, they have made the striking discovery that the child's school performance is more likely to reflect the father's parenting than the mother's.
"The more involved, engaged and effective the dads were with the kids, the better the children did in school," said Philip Cowan, a professor of psychology. "The children of involved fathers were less likely to hit other kids or get into fights and they had higher achievement test scores."
Additional struggles in these families were caused by changing sex roles which made adversaries out of couples who needed and expected their partners to be their main supports, said the Cowans.
The problem does not lie with working mothers, however. The researchers discovered that children from families where mothers worked outside the home for pay were slightly better off than children whose mothers worked only at home. So, returning to traditional roles for women, as advocated by conservative family commentators, is not likely to make things better for families, the researchers said.
In fact, the Cowans found that the more traditional the family's sex roles were in the division of labor, the more likely the parents were to suffer from depression.
Calling modern couples "new pioneers," the psychologists believe that the process of becoming a family is more difficult than it used to be. They point out that instead of integral communities and kin groups of the past, "most modern parents bring babies home to isolated dwellings where their neighbors are strangers."
They recommend that health networks provide in-home care services and consultation to new families, much like the services that are being developed for the care of the elderly at home.
"We need to hook these families up with some support services," said Philip Cowan, noting that in England, public health nurses provide home visits and clinic access to each couple with a new baby, throughout the child's first year.
"When you provide even minimal but thoughtful support, you see such a difference," he said.
The creation of new support services for families, however, represent only one of three policy levels where solutions should be sought, according to the authors of the book.
They said that new policies should also be made at the legal level, as in changing the laws
governing parenthood, and at the economic level, so that children living
in poverty receive greater financial support.
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