BERKELEY When Patricia Kinman graduated
from her Hayward high school, she wanted to attend UC
Berkeley "more than anything," she says. But financial
constraints compelled her to take a government scholarship
and become a nurse instead. That was 1945. Almost six
decades later, this 75-year-young Berkeley student is
finally living out her dream.
"If something's 'impossible,' that just means it takes
a little longer," she smiles.
Kinman is a veritable role model for determination. She
started her associate in arts degree at Chabot College
in January 1973. A "little busy" raising five
sons and three daughters and returning at age 51 to the
workforce as an RN, she didn't complete the degree until
June 1999. "I took whatever classes I could handle when
I could handle them," she shrugs.
She first applied to Berkeley back in 1999 and was crushed
when she didn't get in. Last year she learned about Berkeley's
Re-entry Student Program for mature students from a Chabot
counselor, who convinced her to apply again. "When the
acceptance letter came, I was so nervous that I didn't
open it for three days," she says. "It's just unbelievable
to me that I'm here. It was something I never thought
I would be able to do."
This time, she plans to finish her degree a bit faster.
Kinman drives up from her home in Castro Valley on Tuesdays
and Thursdays for courses in Shakespeare, folklore, and
education. "I picked things that sounded interesting to
me. I won't say I used a dartboard, but close," she explains.
And while she's considered to have junior standing, don't
ask her about her major: "I've gone through three in my
head and it's only the first week of school."
Even with her maroon backpack weighed down by newly purchased
books, the spry Kinman can easily outpace a younger companion
on a hill. Asked if she plans to join the Rec Center,
she fires back, "Joining Cal is exercise enough. I had
to park way past the stadium today."
Kinman is not the oldest student Berkeley has had on
record. That distinction belongs to Mona Freye, who was
79 when she graduated in 1992. However, Kinman's mature
looks have garnered their share of attention from her
fellow classmates. "They come up and ask, 'Are you a student?'
When I tell them yes, they say 'COOL!'" she recounts happily.
"I like that."
Students, Kinman observes, haven't changed much from
decade to decade except in the little things, like "what
they wear, what color their hair is, and what they use
for earrings." Her classmates have always been pretty
serious, goal-oriented, and accepting, she says.
The only aspect in which Kinman admits to feeling like
a grandmother is the technological. She has a computer
at home and knows "how to turn it on, but not much else,"
she admits, although she does use it to write papers.
She has never ventured online. "I'm going to try it soon,"
she stalls. "My kids say the Internet can be a big time
Kinman's children including her son Kevin, who
graduated from Cal with a degree in environmental design
are supportive, if somewhat baffled about her decision
to keep going for her bachelor's degree. "They can't understand
why I want to work so hard," she says.
When pressed, she's not sure exactly why, either. "Maybe
I want to be known for something aside from being a mom,"
she says. "I love learning new things, and besides, it
keeps me from calling my kids too much."
Cal's most senior student says she also wants to appreciate
how hard her children have worked. Six have graduated from college
and one is a doctor. "But most of all," she says with pride,
"they're fine human beings. And that, I think, takes more